tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858404.post111195521989013807..comments2023-09-22T14:04:12.224-04:00Comments on JDaters Anonymous has moved to JDatersAnonymous.com: CoolSJF’s IM chat From HellEsther Kustanowitzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17598539253079410648noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858404.post-1116433769509374172005-05-18T12:29:00.000-04:002005-05-18T12:29:00.000-04:00Amazing. I think I've run into this character (or...Amazing. I think I've run into this character (or one of his many clones) online, too. <BR/><BR/>Yeah, you know you shouldn't keep chatting, but it's that whole train wreck mentality that takes hold when you come across someone like that.DrinkingTeahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02918066780245212950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858404.post-1115061283636131772005-05-02T15:14:00.000-04:002005-05-02T15:14:00.000-04:00wow. i've met guys like that on jdate too. really ...wow. i've met guys like that on jdate too. really sad. anyway, i can sympathize with her. maybe she was getting a kick out of riling up a real a-hole... as immature as that might have been! sometimes saying you're seeing someone is easier for a guy's ego than to say, well i think you're uninteresting / unintelligent / ugly !!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858404.post-1114383454419315402005-04-24T18:57:00.000-04:002005-04-24T18:57:00.000-04:00I agree with Sarah.This Guy was def inappropiate b...I agree with Sarah.This Guy was def inappropiate but if she is not available than why is she wasting time on jdate im with some loser.Ill tell ya why because she is not happy with the guy and wants more action!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858404.post-1113943504883727512005-04-19T16:45:00.000-04:002005-04-19T16:45:00.000-04:00Okay, the guy is clearly a loser but her behavior ...Okay, the guy is clearly a loser but her behavior left something to be desired as well. <BR/><BR/>1) If you are dating someone, why hang out on Jdate? Poor form. It reminds me of a friend of mine who used to go to singles events when he was already engaged. <BR/><BR/>2) If you do wish to hang out on Jdate while dating someone, at least have the class not to use "I am dating someone" as an excuse not to meet someone who expresses interest. <BR/><BR/>3) If you are not interested, simply say, no, but thank you, and firmly but politely end the conversation. <BR/><BR/>4) The average plumber probably *does* make more money than many people with MA's, and the average plumber does not have a BA and may or may not be a whiz at spelling. I do not know what this guy's profession is, but he may be telling the truth about his earning potential.Gilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13246089571573457394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858404.post-1112835387709295192005-04-06T20:56:00.000-04:002005-04-06T20:56:00.000-04:00I think they are both screwed up. He was being a p...I think they are both screwed up. He was being a pest and an aggressive jerk yet she didnt make it clear she wasnt interested in dating. If she was seeing someone, she should have said she cant at the moment because she is seeing someone and when he continued, to persist and say no and if he still persisted, to say bye. If she wasn't, she should have just said she wasnt interested. Its important to be clear because if you show confusion, then, us as guys (the chasers) will persist.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858404.post-1112648477547507242005-04-04T17:01:00.000-04:002005-04-04T17:01:00.000-04:00I love reading other people's IM conversations (al...I love reading other people's IM conversations (although I didn't understand half of that one due to the use of letters as word abbreviations).<BR/><BR/>The problem is, the girl *did* stoop to that idiot guy's level. Of course, it made it a treat for me to read, but still. If she wasn't interested she shouldn't have let the chat go on. Why didn't she just close the window? The guy clearly wanted to get a rise out of her and he got that.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05578306123403211292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858404.post-1112412701014304132005-04-01T22:31:00.000-05:002005-04-01T22:31:00.000-05:00why keep the IM going if the guy is so horrible? L...why keep the IM going if the guy is so horrible? Log off.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858404.post-1112074719949294882005-03-29T00:38:00.000-05:002005-03-29T00:38:00.000-05:00Dear Annabel Lee,I'm 43, from NY, and I just start...Dear Annabel Lee,<BR/><BR/>I'm 43, from NY, and I just started seeing someone (I met her on JDate, we've been out around eight times and so far it's going quite well).<BR/><BR/>But thanks!<BR/><BR/>-Shaun (the 2nd anonymous poster)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858404.post-1112038004043055682005-03-28T14:26:00.000-05:002005-03-28T14:26:00.000-05:00hey, anonymous -- who are you, how old are you, an...hey, anonymous -- who are you, how old are you, and where do you live? Maybe JDaters Anonymous could make a shidduch!annabel leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02293940661703208777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858404.post-1112029836466930152005-03-28T12:10:00.000-05:002005-03-28T12:10:00.000-05:00I turned off the JDate IM capability as soon as th...I turned off the JDate IM capability as soon as the IM windows kept popping up and annoying me, so I can't speak to how that works. But I will say that I've had a lot of good experiences meeting women on JDate, and I have met some very lovely women with whom I've had strong relationships. I'm a nice guy, and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Don't let one creep sour you from the possibility of meeting someone online.<BR/><BR/>-A nice guy who can spell, and who believes that the P-word the creep used should be used only to refer to kittens.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858404.post-1112029565950570852005-03-28T12:06:00.000-05:002005-03-28T12:06:00.000-05:00I have to say . . . . WTF?I have to say . . . . WTF?PepGiraffehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11710602869237120444noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858404.post-1111980986263869892005-03-27T22:36:00.000-05:002005-03-27T22:36:00.000-05:00Makes me embarassed to be a male.Makes me embarassed to be a male.Gatsbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07129916814362195156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858404.post-1111977265774558312005-03-27T21:34:00.000-05:002005-03-27T21:34:00.000-05:00Ha! I think I've chatted with that same douchebag...Ha! I think I've chatted with that same douchebag!WendyCity Productionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16948290593271290911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858404.post-1111976630167622292005-03-27T21:23:00.000-05:002005-03-27T21:23:00.000-05:00YIKES! That's awful. Ugh.YIKES! That's awful. Ugh.annabel leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02293940661703208777noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6858404.post-1111967804800921212005-03-27T18:56:00.000-05:002005-03-27T18:56:00.000-05:00yikes I would have just blocked him or closed the ...yikes I would have just blocked him or closed the convo. THat kind of behavoir is innaporiate. I'd try and report it. <BR/><BR/>RozAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com